Planning for Young Children: Naming Guardians and Setting Up Trusts

April Randle • May 8, 2025

Planning for Young Children: Naming Guardians and Setting Up Trusts

Why Estate Planning Isn’t Just for the Elderly

Many parents assume estate planning is something they can deal with later in life. But if you have young children, the most important planning you’ll ever do might be now. A well-crafted estate plan ensures that if something were to happen to you, your children would be cared for by the people you choose—and that your assets would be managed wisely on their behalf.

Without a plan in place, the state of Tennessee may decide who takes care of your children and how assets are handled for the child’s benefit. That often involves court-appointed guardians and conservators, delays, significant costs, and added emotional stress for the people you love most.

Naming a Guardian: The Most Important Decision You May Ever Make

One of the most powerful things you can do as a parent is to name a legal guardian for your minor children. This is the person you trust to step into your shoes if you’re no longer able to care for your kids. You can name a guardian in your will, and you can even name a backup or co-guardians depending on your situation.

When choosing a guardian, consider values, parenting style, location, and emotional readiness. The decision doesn’t have to be permanent—you can revise it as your children grow and your relationships evolve. What matters is putting your wishes in writing so a court can follow them.

Protecting Their Inheritance with a Trust

Minor children can’t legally inherit money or property directly. If you were to pass away without a trust in place, the court may assign someone to manage the inheritance—often under strict limitations—until your child turns 18, sometimes 21. At that point, they’d receive everything outright, whether they’re ready or not.

A revocable living trust allows you to choose how and when your assets are distributed. For example, you might provide for health, education, and basic needs while the child is young, then allow more access as they reach adulthood. You also get to choose the trustee who will manage the funds according to your instructions.

Give Your Family Clarity and Confidence

Planning for the unexpected isn’t easy, but it’s one of the most loving steps you can take for your children. It ensures they’ll be cared for by the right people, in the right way, with less confusion and stress during a difficult time. We help parents across Tennessee create estate plans that protect their children and reflect their values. Contact our office today to start planning with peace of mind.

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